Hi shot caller,
First, call my hubby up and tell him how to be a real man

Secondly, if your girl goes and get's her eyes checked every year like she should then they will pick up on anything that might be happening and there are treatments so we don't go blind....key hear is to keep going for the anuals, and trying to keep sugars as stable as possible. My bg's were all over forever, I have one broken vessel, no where near, my optical nerver or whatever he said.......so my eyes are still cool.....
Kidneys, same thing, they do blood work and such at dr's visits, keep um flushed with plenty of water, and also keeping sugars stable, then it is a higher percentage that their won't be complications either. Keeping an eye on things too, is the best bet to catch something early enough too......
By the way your a great guy "oh sigh", some girls are so lucky
Cheryl