| I am sorry if I offended you, that was not my intention. It just sometimes your feelings can get pushed aside while dealing with your wife and eventually your feelings come out, sometimes not in the best way.
I am talking from experience about pent up feelings and then come back to bite you in the butt. Even if you have a friend to talk to it does make it easier to deal with the problems. I can usually tell when my medical problems are getting to my husband by his actions and words and we talk about them.
That is all I was meaning and I hope I didn't make it sound otherwise. Just want to make sure that you both make it through this.
Kim | 
