I have to take sides here, and it's not his side I'm taking. Please value your life, your freedom and your values above all. Everyone is responsible for their own choices, and even though he may feel diabetes wasn't his choice, the way he responds to the challenges is entirely up to him. Along the same lines, you have the choice to put up with his nonsense or not. If
his love for you is as strong, things will fall into place, if not - not all things can be fixed and it's not always a bad thing.
Please excuse me if I sounded harsh, and please bear with me: I have been known to offer my opinions as the gospel truth
