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I highly recommend the book "Diabetes Burnout" by William Polonsky. Even if just you read it, it could help. Having been in a similar situation to yours, I read the book and it really helped me. I actually left the book out at a time when I wasn't going to be home and the other person came along and saw it and decided to read it. Not that I'm saying that would work in your situation, but that I knew bringing up the book in conversation would have been a mistake. Sometimes the only thing you can do is back off, because trying to help can have the opposite effect, unfortunately. Good luck.