This I already have done Rikki.

(backrubs mainly) Except the dishes after five years of doing them, (she works second shift and I work third) the children are old enough to do them now. Since we finally got a dishwasher last year.
When I said stubborn I meant in she will do it the way she was told by the nurse and keep it that way because she has never done this before. But she was stubborn before she was pregnant. But, I will go with unreasonable that sounds much nicer.
June,
I told her about the way you said to practice and she said she would try that.