| My late wife and I attempted to conceive for over a year before we started with fertility evaluations and treatments, back in 1981. There was the morning temperature charts to determine the most fertile days, and the sex on demand at those times. There was the "stop trying" altogether. There were several years of resentment and depression as one by one, all of our friends and family were having kids with no problems. Finally, we decided that time was a-wasting, and the doctors were getting absolutely nowhere with us. Nine months after we ditched the entire pregnancy game, we brought home a bright, beautiful infant daughter--from Korea. She turns 25 in a couple of months, and is a PhD fellow in Music at the U. of Chicago. I also have a 17 year old son, from Vietnam. Wherever your children come from, however they arrive, once you hold them in your arms, you will love them forever. Good luck, and keep an open mind...
Michael | 
