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Originally Posted by BlueSky 
Managing blood sugar becomes part of a coping mechanism that can be quite destructive, and it manifests in different ways with different people.
I am painfully aware that, when I am having to deal with other frustrations, I redirect this negative energy into managing the diabetes. Perhaps it is because I feel the much sought-after sense of control that has abandoned me in my other activities (especially work). When this happens, my control tends to become somewhat uncompromising and aggressive. This is not good. It can lead to bad outcomes. The fact that it is a subconscious though pattern makes observing and dealing with it difficult. I guess sometimes we just need to take step back from ourselves so we can watch what is going on.
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Wow the above is so true, and also a description of my life, along with some good ideas. I've got the career frustration going and I supercontrol some things, knowing I do it because of the lack of control in other areas. You've got a friend here. I always appreciate your thoughtful input. It makes me sad when someone like you -- self-confident and sure, intelligent and caring -- gets down or unsure. You don't always have to be the strong one! I'm glad you are here Blue.
