[Coppernob]

I understand how you must feel and can imagine your frustration, anxiety and depression.

I identify with your daughter because I have been right where she is now. My real rebellion came during my university years when my parents could not see what was going on. In the end I realized that I was actually hurting myself and so got myself back on track.

Your daughter has been diabetic for so long and she probably doesn't see the point of it all - you know that teenage "I am invincible" feeling. I agree with the previous comments, especially the last two.

Just hang in there Mum and be there for her - I know it is hard.