Sorry he is giving you a fit. DO not assume he will change with time. I've been married 44 years and 40 yrs diabetic. My husband can be asked to hand be a diet soda from the fridge and he will bring me a regular one and not know the differance. He is just out of it. I gave up on educating him years ago. It would be much better if he were understanding he is a nurse so you would think he would. He will bring home gifts of chocolate even now and get upset when it does not get eaten. I just toss it a few pieces at a time so he thinks I eat it.
Take heart that you have support in the forum. Develope friends and family support who can give you strength. If you are in a church develop a support group there. Praying things will look up for you.

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Janlaton
type 2 40 years
Avandia, Glipzide & Metformin
Grandmother to 4 wonderful children
I have diabetes, It does not have me!