I know how you feel about finding this site- it really is helpful to talk with other people that understand how it feels to have diabetes
I used to have a lot of the symptoms that you described- weak legs, feeling hungry all the time, up and down blood sugars, and the never ending battle to lose weight
To get around some of these symptoms I follow the south beach diet. I do this because I found that eating less carbohydrates not only helped me to lose some weight, but really is good for my blood sugars and I don't feel hungry all the time.
You can get all the information off line so it is free and I found it helpful. It might be worth a shot- I like it- Good luck, I hope you feel better
