To add to this.......... I didn't really say too much on WHAT the major stress was about. This girl, who's parents tossed her out on her ear when all of this happened, now has made up with her parents, who are divorced and abused her, or so her story goes, and she moved back to that world..... and somehow I am the monster for taking her in and nurturing her and loving her like she was my own........ and somehow I am a monster for that. Being accused of wanting to take her baby away from her and god only knows what all I am not hearing thru the grapevine. I had said and stand by, I RAISED MY KIDS, I don't want to raise another, and by taking someone in, I am not sure how that made me the bad guy here....... but oh well. THAT stress is over and I am ok now..... we can't control people, only control how we handle them, and I found a place where I can live with all of it..
If I was the monster I am being made out to be, I wonder how because we kept her in our home for 2 months after the two of them broke up, who else does THAT? I am not tooting my own horn, but just letting you know where the stresses came in so bad. They BOTH lived under my roof and my son, being the monster HE is I guess, was all fine with her staying here..... that made HIM a monster too.....
