Hey Darian! PLEASE find a class soon. You'll be surprised at how much you and your wife will learn together. It'll be better for both of you for an expert to teach her and easier on you too. My son, who is a type 2, went with me and he relearned lots and learned new stuff too. He's gotten motivated again to work harder at geting his bs down. The last 1/2 hour of the class was spent on sexuality, so you can imagine how uncomfy it was between son and mom while the CDE demonstrated how to use cerrtain items!
