[Jan B]

Nicole,

I really like that you are not making a snap decision. You are trying to get your head around it all. I know you don't have a lot of time, but you have enough time to make this decision that will be part of your life forever.

My belief is that all the stories about other people's experiences (good and bad) are helping get you a little better feel of things, BUT, this is between You, your boyfriend, and dare I say . . . God. The "three" of you can decide. Your parents, if you include them, may be helpful too. I hope so anyway.

I pray for the best for all involved.

Also, if you were my daughter (which I would love to have had), I would hug and hold you and let you tell me all you were feeliing.