| If I didn't want to hear what you all have to say I would have never posted this thread!
I posted it to get your advice and thoughts on it.. for example wether some of you would do it or not, or maybe some of you have and I wanted to know how it made you feel afterwards..
Not to be criticized for keeping my options open.
Like I've said before, the decision I make will affect Bobby and I, and only Bobby and I. And for that matter it's really going to affect me more than Bobby anyways.
I appreciate all the advice and criticism I'm receiving, more so the advice than the criticism.. but anyways if you feel the need to lash out at me for keeping my options open, feel free to do so. It won't influence me or make me feel anymore bad than I already do.
But at this time in my life I feel like this is something I can't handle right now.
And you mean to tell me that if you were living with your b/f in your parents house, you didn't have a job, or ANY WAY to even support YOURSELF much less a baby you would STILL have the baby?!?!?
My take on it is if I'm going to carry a baby for NINE MONTHS of my life then I'm sure as heck going to keep it!! Do you men realize how attached women get during that 9 months??!!??
Sure that baby may not be here physically, but it will be soon enough. I'm sorry I'm not going to carry a baby for 9 months of my life then turn around and give it up, no in that case i'm going to keep it if I go nine months carrying it . So no, adoption is not an option.
I'm happy for the people that could have theirs, and keep them. But times are different now and things have changed. You don't think I feel bad enough about it, well news flash.. I DO!
I don't want to abort it, but right now its whats best for me.
I'll continue to hear what you have to say, but I can't promise that it will change my mind.
** And by the way.. I'm going Thursday to an abortion clinic to TALK to someone about it, not actually have it done. I want to hear from both sides what their take on it is before I go and make a final decision. | 
