[jer.lawrence]

I really wish that I could offer some advice, but I can't. My dad had a stroke a couple of years ago (he isn't diabetic) and he's been unable to work nearly as much as he used to. He had no health insurance at the time, and the hospital bills were upwards of 70 grand. He's back to work now, but he never feels quite right.

I always tell him to go see a doctor as well and discuss his symptoms with them, but he won't. I know it's not quite the same thing, but it gets to me having to help support my dad (emotionally and financially). I'm 28, I don't think I should have to be doing that yet.

I don't mind, I don't want to give the impression that I do. I love him and I'll continue to do anything I can for him. It's just very mentally and emotionally draining.

I hope your mom will snap out of it and start taking care of herself too.