[Ailsa]

Hi Shellybelly,
If you would like to have children, let me assure you nothing will motivate you to get under control like getting prenant! You have someone elses wellfare to consider then.
They say it's important to have good control in advance, but if you are in reasonable range I don't think you have to get fixated about it. Mine was unplanned so hadn't spent months trying to achieve the impossible, but I had a great outcome. Have to say though, be prepared for nine months of perfection! but the motivation happens of it's own accord. The instinct to protect our young is astonishing.