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mzizgayle
01-24-2007, 12:30 PM
Good afternoon, while surfing the net at work, learning all I can about the alien that has invaded my body, I found your site, so figure what the heck I can add another favorite to my computer for diabetes...after all I have a whole folder for crochet/psp sites, now I can have a folder for diabetes. You can never get enough information.

I am Gayle, 60 years old, lived a very healthy life style (ate healthy, exercised, was not considered overweight at the time for my size/age)But have a family history of diabetes. Well sure enough, right in the middle of a very stressful time in my life this past May, 2006(hubby having a set back from his heart disease, fighting with his family, usual stuff)I almost go blind.

Went to the eye doctor, she freaks out, makes me call my doctor right then and there. My doctor's PA, who also happened to be my niece just brushed off the response of the eye doctor, said nah don't think diabetes, I know you and your habits, but come in to the clinic and we will test ya anyway. Well sure enough 2 days later I am type 2, A1c over 11!. All the strange symptoms I had been experiencing and complaining about for 5 years was my body saying hey, I have invaded you, listen to me...doctors kept saying you are healthy for a woman of your age, your blood work is fine, yada yada.

Changed doctor, since I didn't appreciate a few other things said by niece, etc and now I have a nice guy who admits I am nuts, but realizes I do take control, and agrees to listen to me.

Do I get frustrated, yes, am I scared of the future, yes, do I get depressed over this, I'd be lying if I said no but I am good at keeping it hid from others, after all I have a hubby that does need me. I realize I do need to be around others who do understand the emotions and turmoils that one can go thru with this disease. But I will not allow this to take over, nor to rent my mind for free, and after a slight hissy fit, I think I finally I have gotten this in somewhat control. I have no choice but to accept it, face it head on and in time I hope to feel comfortable with this

I now am on 750mg metformin, the slow release type which seems to be doing better than the fast acting type I started on.

So anyhoo, now that I have given you more reading material, I shall continue to explore the site............see ya, I hope my experience will help another 'newbie' deal

andypoo
01-24-2007, 12:35 PM
mzizgayle,welcome aboard ,glad you joined, you'll love it here,very informative and fun.!

princesslinda
01-24-2007, 12:38 PM
Hello MzGayle:
Welcome to the club! I was diagnosed 8/31/06 (funny how that day sticks in my mind), so I guess i'm still in the newbie stage.

Anyway, what you're feeling is to be expected...it's normal to react that way whenever you have a life-changing event...and the big-D certainly is that! Sounds like you have lived a very healthy life...so I know this was probably even more shocking to you.

I hope you find this site very helpful and encouraging. There are so many of us here, all at different stages of managing our diabetes and willing to share experiences.

I'm on metformin myself, 500 mg 2 times daily. Initial A1C was 9.6, next (and most recent) was 6.2. I try to eat low-carb and exercise daily (things you probably already do, i've had to learn to do).

One thing i've learned while on this site: Diabetes is very managable and isn't the end of the world. We all have our bad days, but this forum helps get through them.

Again, Welcome.

Penny
01-24-2007, 12:39 PM
Hello Mzizgayle and welcome. I am a 60 year old, with a husband who just had open heart surgery, but I have been dealing with diabetes for a very long time. Just dealing with your sick husband can make things worse for your diabetes. Let me know if I can help, but there are many on this forum who can help you.

mzizgayle
01-24-2007, 12:47 PM
wow fast replys, everybody must be surfing lol...thank you for the nice welcomes, I am sure I will learn even more...

Penny my guy had a 4 way bypass couple years ago, had major complications when the veins they used collapsed (5% have this happen). He is doing ok now, does have uncontrollable angina, now on social security and makes a decent house hubby now lol. But he does go thru depression off and on. I did solve one issue that was causing problems. We usually rented or for the last five years shared a house with his sister, which was really too close for comfort especially with him. So I told him enough we were going to buy our very first home - right in the middle of me being told I had diabetes but all went well. So having also lived with the heart disease, I maybe can also help you if you ever need to talk. They say each time the heart is touch, depression sets in...or you can do as I do...make faces at your guy behind his back when he gets into snits. lol

Penny
01-24-2007, 01:01 PM
wow fast replys, everybody must be surfing lol...thank you for the nice welcomes, I am sure I will learn even more...

Penny my guy had a 4 way bypass couple years ago, had major complications when the veins they used collapsed (5% have this happen). He is doing ok now, does have uncontrollable angina, now on social security and makes a decent house hubby now lol. But he does go thru depression off and on. I did solve one issue that was causing problems. We usually rented or for the last five years shared a house with his sister, which was really too close for comfort especially with him. So I told him enough we were going to buy our very first home - right in the middle of me being told I had diabetes but all went well. So having also lived with the heart disease, I maybe can also help you if you ever need to talk. They say each time the heart is touch, depression sets in...or you can do as I do...make faces at your guy behind his back when he gets into snits. lol

My husband had 4 bypass ( don't think I can spell quadruple LOL), in November. He does have bouts of depression, mainly because he figured out he is not Superman and just might not live forever. But he is 70, and has not really ever been sick. We have a grown daughter living with us, so I know what you were going through with the sister. I am really surprised at how much of a "house husband" mine turned into when I got sick...he cooks, cleans, does laundry...all those years and I believed he couldn't do anything like that! :s:

KritterMom
01-24-2007, 02:31 PM
Hi there and welcome to the group. I look forward to getting to know you. I'm a type 2 for 20 years now, getting ready to go on the pump soon. Feel free to look around and don't be shy!
Again, welcome.

kgm0612
01-25-2007, 05:29 AM
Hi Gayle & Welcome to this great forum.

Where in NH are you? Any chance you're near North Conway?

Karen

mzizgayle
01-25-2007, 05:59 AM
good morning Karen...I am in Enfield NH, which is about 2 hours from North Conway...In our weekend exploring trips hubby and I have been there. Enfield is next to Dartmouth College/Hospital...Pretty close to the Vermont line...nice meeting you!!

ladytaz
01-25-2007, 07:57 AM
Hi Gayle! :ciao: Welcome to DF!!!

Good outlook ya got there!! YaY! Sure to keep ya around for a while!! ;)
I think you'll really like it here! LOTS of information, LOTS of good, kind, supportive and helpful people :) (and some crazy fun one's too!! ;))

Cyborg
01-25-2007, 06:03 PM
Glad you found us...

Welcome aboard :wavey: