Hi Chariot: Welcome to the forum.
Not going to hazard a guess as to your diabetic standing at this point. Your first order of business should be finding out a definitive diagnosis. You should have an A1C drawn at your doctors appt. This will give a 90 day average of your blood sugar, which would be much more useful than just meter readings alone.
If you are a full-blown diabetic, then testing is the key to good control. If you test regularly, esp. 2 hrs after the start of your meals, you will be able to see the effects certain foods have on your blood sugar levels and know what foods to avoid and what you can eat without problems.
Exercise is also very important in good control.
If you are pre-diabetic, then you will hopefully be able to turn things around and avoid diabetes for many, many years with healthy lifestyle changes.
If you find you are diabetic, you'll find lots of very useful information on this forum.
Let us know how your appt goes.
Linda
